I have to sing stupid.

Blue Valentine - 8/10. You like a person for who they are and then you get mad at them when they don't change. The opposite spectrum of 'The Kids Are All Right.' There's a connective tissue missing between Ryan Gosling being a decent person to becoming an asshole, but it's probably found in each of them allowing the other to be who they were, even as they were becoming something different. The point is to grow in the same direction, I guess.